So what the hell is a relationship? You know you might have read so many things about being in a perfect relationship or how to get someone to like you. You must have read about many famous psychologists telling you all about relationships. But that is all what you hear about perfect relationships. But take it from me, an 18 year old teenager the reality of life.
Well the reality of life is , you meet someone, you fall in love, the person loves you back , and then you don’t love him anymore OR you meet someone, you fall in love and then the person leaves you. But have you ever tried to find out the reason why the person left you or why do you leave that person? Maybe you want something at that moment but after a few years you don’t , you want something else. With that something else there comes so many things that you need to do. You actually need to change and believe me change is not easy.
If you want a change in yourself you need to let people go, you need to let things strip away and most of all you need to have hope and have faith in yourself. One can climb mountains if they have hope , unless you don’t want to do that. Have hope in what you want to do and what you want to achieve in life. Sometimes what you want gets in the way of your relationship and that person in love with you can never imagine you changing for good. If the person is not with you or does not trust you or support you with what you want to do with your life then it’s time to move on. If a person really loves you then he would never leave you at your worst. You are at your worst when you are changing. You have mood swings, irritation and all those memories , emotions just rush in, at 100 miles per hour.
You love a person, you cannot even think living without them and the next moment you just don’t want to be with them. You are thinking about your life and you are allowed to do so unless you are not cheating on someone else. If you don’t see the future with someone then it is time to let them go. Talk to them about this and don’t cheat on them. Learn to live your life the way you want to. Don’t let other people’s opinion ruin that decision for you. You must think what an 18 year old would know about life about reality but i have seen it all Happy relationships , Sad relationships, lonely relationships , one- sided relationships and so much more.
So my advice to you is have hope. Everything will fall into place at it’s right time. You wouldn’t need to beg for a relationship , for someone to love you back. You will meet that person, you will go to that date , you will have your dream proposal, you will marry him/ her. Have faith in you. Honestly, this is what kept me going. Some person might be wrong for you but out there is that one person who can make you feel happy and loved. We all want the same thing from our lives . You want the love that consumes you , you want passion and adventure and a little bit of danger. A whole lifetime is waiting for you out there. Live a little and a little more and a little more.